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Nir Eyal

Wall Street Journal Bestselling Author of "Hooked" and "Indistractable." Public Speaker and Consultant

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One of the most important tactics we can use to help our children develop healthy relationships with technology is empowering them with autonomy. When my daughter was five, my wife and I asked her how much screen time per day she thought was good for her. We took a risk by giving her the autonomy to make the decision for herself. To our surprise, she sheepishly asked for “two shows” -- two episodes of kid-appropriate programming a day. Armed with the logic behind why limiting screen time was important, our daughter used this autonomy to make a smart decision for herself. Distraction is a problem like any other. When we discuss our problems openly and in a supportive environment, we can resolve them together and spend our time in ways that we truly want to. Parents need to understand that it’s okay to put their kids in charge, because it’s only when they learn to practice monitoring their own behavior that they learn how to manage their own time and attention. Remember, we’re not raising children, we’re raising future adults. What kinds of distraction issues do you struggle with your children about? Do you have any tips for fellow parents? #Indistractable #Empowerment #Support …see more

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