My friend wanted to be a famous artist. But she said, "I can do it in Paris. I feel that will inspire me."​ She had unopened paintbrushes in her apartment. Waiting to be packed. 20 years later she's a computer programmer now at an accounting firm in California. Another friend of mine is divorced and thinks she will never meet another guy again. She wants to meet a guy. She is 50 and incredibly healthy and good looking. Every time I see her she insists "I will never meet anyone! I'm too old."​ She is very convincing. #writing #happiness …see more