I told her I would never write about her again. The first time I wrote about her was in 2009. I met her in a bookstore and she was drawing and I was attracted to her. I asked her what she was drawing. She told me her whole story. And then a week later I wrote about it. That same day I got my first death threat. “I could kill you for writing about her.” I apologized to her. We met. I asked her out. She said no. “You’re too old for me.” Which I was. …see more