Realistically almost all issues are deeply complex, the notion of behavior that is right or wrong, the idea one could understanding an issue entirely, are all silly. Somehow life feels very complex and our need to be on a "side" or "maintain a viewpoint" consistently, is at odds with this. Seeing both sides of something seems to merely attract scorn from everyone. In charged times it becomes dangerous to your reputation to even listen to another side, let alone seek to understand the viewpoint . …see more